Primary focus of this article is not the hardships themselves, but rather the ways in which we respond to them, how we manage the fears that they instigate, and how we navigate these difficult phases.
I think we are drawn to people we see are on a similar journey. I call myself a searcher, among other things that may define me. Your journey and mine are likely quite different but you speak the language of the quester. In building our philosophy of life, the why is less important than the how. Along the path there is much to be curious about, much to rejoice over, and so much to feel in the deepness of our soul. I am glad you are sharing your travels with us. Happy trails my friend.
Love this! Keep posting and keep writing, you have a tremendous gift. So happy to see you choose to motivate and lift fellow humans in this way. Love your videos too!
It was much needed for me to read this today. Life has hit me with a few curve balls since last 7 years and I’ve been through so many tunnels, uphills, downhills, dark hopeless thoughts… I also think it’s a journey, as you’ve mentioned in the writing, towards the healing and getting the life lessons along the way. Although, at times it feels very daunting to face the challenges and try to bring a different perspective in that moment. In my healing journey which I’m still on, I’ve given my mind the perspective of looking at everything as “temporary” or “mortal”… When I accidentally fall into the trap of taking things too seriously I switch back to thinking that everything will vanish one day and nothing will matter in the end, then I bring my focus back to the now and I remind myself that this is the only moment that I have right now. Today, when I was out for a walk I asked Universe to send me some signs/messages that I need to receive… after half an hour of walking I saw a poster inside a store with the lines “Hang in there” !!! Your writing was like a reminder for me to look at the things with a broader perspective. And, it’s so very true that if we’re aware of looking at things differently, things definitely start to get better. I’m so grateful to you for writing this and sharing it with us. 🙏🏽
PS: The video you’ve shared is my favourite! It feels so good when I listen to it and I also sing along! 💝
Thank you once again for your article! I agree a positive attitude is the better choice between that or a poor attitude. But I think you’re missing examples of how to be positive during a hardship/crisis. Take great care!
that is so true but sometimes it is extremely difficult to change how we respond without external help. I became suddenly very sick and was hospitalized for 2 months last summer. I had septicaemia and I guess I could have died but I didn't. I actually recovered quite well and I would have been fine when I went home except that my husband is bi-polar and my abrupt illness pushed him into his worst manic phase ever. So when I came home he was still very manic an this caused me to become extremely anxious. Previously I had been taking medication to help me with my anxiety and until this sudden change I was my normal, happy self. Trying to live with and deal with someone who is quite manic was extremely challenging. My anxiety was high and I could not eat. I had to change to a different medication which was all the harder because of the anxiety. I hung in there and persevered. After a few weeks or a month my husband calmed down and went back into his 'down' mode where he is more like himself. My anxiety slowly decreased thanks to the meds and to my husband calming down. Now I feel more like my usual self and have back my typical joie de vivre. Hopefully we won't have any more sudden surprises like that but if we do we will just have to deal with it. I am in my late 70s and aging is challenging. I try to find the tiny joys in every day. Having a caring son, partner and friends certainly helps. For the most part I have been fortunate enough to have had a pretty good life. I think we are each here to learn and grow..... and to help each other.
I think we are drawn to people we see are on a similar journey. I call myself a searcher, among other things that may define me. Your journey and mine are likely quite different but you speak the language of the quester. In building our philosophy of life, the why is less important than the how. Along the path there is much to be curious about, much to rejoice over, and so much to feel in the deepness of our soul. I am glad you are sharing your travels with us. Happy trails my friend.
Love this! Keep posting and keep writing, you have a tremendous gift. So happy to see you choose to motivate and lift fellow humans in this way. Love your videos too!
Thank you for sharing your thoughts and your process.
It was much needed for me to read this today. Life has hit me with a few curve balls since last 7 years and I’ve been through so many tunnels, uphills, downhills, dark hopeless thoughts… I also think it’s a journey, as you’ve mentioned in the writing, towards the healing and getting the life lessons along the way. Although, at times it feels very daunting to face the challenges and try to bring a different perspective in that moment. In my healing journey which I’m still on, I’ve given my mind the perspective of looking at everything as “temporary” or “mortal”… When I accidentally fall into the trap of taking things too seriously I switch back to thinking that everything will vanish one day and nothing will matter in the end, then I bring my focus back to the now and I remind myself that this is the only moment that I have right now. Today, when I was out for a walk I asked Universe to send me some signs/messages that I need to receive… after half an hour of walking I saw a poster inside a store with the lines “Hang in there” !!! Your writing was like a reminder for me to look at the things with a broader perspective. And, it’s so very true that if we’re aware of looking at things differently, things definitely start to get better. I’m so grateful to you for writing this and sharing it with us. 🙏🏽
PS: The video you’ve shared is my favourite! It feels so good when I listen to it and I also sing along! 💝
very well written, I do enjoy your perspective, many blessings to you
Great video!! A wonderful work!
Thank you once again for your article! I agree a positive attitude is the better choice between that or a poor attitude. But I think you’re missing examples of how to be positive during a hardship/crisis. Take great care!
that is so true but sometimes it is extremely difficult to change how we respond without external help. I became suddenly very sick and was hospitalized for 2 months last summer. I had septicaemia and I guess I could have died but I didn't. I actually recovered quite well and I would have been fine when I went home except that my husband is bi-polar and my abrupt illness pushed him into his worst manic phase ever. So when I came home he was still very manic an this caused me to become extremely anxious. Previously I had been taking medication to help me with my anxiety and until this sudden change I was my normal, happy self. Trying to live with and deal with someone who is quite manic was extremely challenging. My anxiety was high and I could not eat. I had to change to a different medication which was all the harder because of the anxiety. I hung in there and persevered. After a few weeks or a month my husband calmed down and went back into his 'down' mode where he is more like himself. My anxiety slowly decreased thanks to the meds and to my husband calming down. Now I feel more like my usual self and have back my typical joie de vivre. Hopefully we won't have any more sudden surprises like that but if we do we will just have to deal with it. I am in my late 70s and aging is challenging. I try to find the tiny joys in every day. Having a caring son, partner and friends certainly helps. For the most part I have been fortunate enough to have had a pretty good life. I think we are each here to learn and grow..... and to help each other.
I know I've told you before, but I really enjoy these emails; they help me think.
Thanks, Colin! I am glad you enjoy them!
Thanks so much for the video. It made me smile.
I am glad the video made you smile.